"With young women, it’s about teaching the difference between the desire to be desired and desire itself…It only takes a girl a few seconds to realize what someone else may want from her sexually. It often takes her much longer to figure out what she really wants, to discern the pleasure she gets from bringing pleasure to another from the pleasure she wants for herself. And once she’s figured that out, it’s vital to work to create a culture where she can articulate that want without shame."

— Hugo Schwyzer - The Paris Paradox (via problemswithindecision)